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    Love are blind (Love Confession)

    Hey Guys, i have a stupid Problem.
    A Week ago i have confess my Love a Girl.
    We already knew about 1 year, and told us a lot about each other.
    Normaly i don't confess my Love a Girl, more the other Way, the Girls Confess her Love to me.
    Also i write my Feelings about her on a SMS and i writte it should work if not, we can still remain friends.
    After a week I still get no response from here.
    Maybe it's up to me, as I have previously talked about my problems, I have been suffering from short to stress-related depression and drugs get prescribed.
    What do I do now? Call her? Wait more?

    Hope you have a Council for me.

    Thanks & Peace

    (Sorry for my bad english grammar)
    "It's okay to spin around and around in the same place.
    Just so long as you're singing your heart out.
    That's what life's all about."

    -Honey & Clover-

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    Hey Soliduz

    No, that is no stupid problem, it's just something that happens to us men

    I tell you what I think: usually, when men confess their love to a girl, they get the response "I like you too, but Let's Just Be Friends!" And usually girls cannot cope with the words "I love you, let's be more than friends", it is too heavy emotion-wise for them. She is'n't put off by your depression, but she is kinda scared by your showing your love.

    To be honest, I do not think you will succeed with her. There is only a short time in which you can achieve more than just friendship, and this time usually is at the very beginning, after meeting somebody. If she answers you, she will probably tell you how nice you are and how much she enjoys your time together but you are only a friend for her.

    Of course I might be wrong, this is a simple diagnosis without knowing any more details. If you had physical contact in the past year, chances are higher than you will finally end up in a relationship with her. Otherwise, my only advice to you is: keep her as a friend (if you can support that), and start looking for another girl.

    Also, feel free to PM me if you want to discuss that stuff in German.

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    first thank you for the answers to the kind as I have said it, I already have it in the text explains that it's easier for me my feelings about words, to bring a text, I would in a call, the words, my feelings can not pronounce this may sound stupid maybe, but I had to somehow try it.
    And with the sentence, should work if it was not we be friends again is such a thing, of course I do not want it ending so and of course, may sound stupid and selfish, but I will let them know anyway, no matter what comes, they can rely on me as a friend, as it was before.
    That the depression I had explained earlier where we had met, she said she understood that and we talk openly honest here, that was the reason why I have written her the message.
    Now I have to get by my friend the advice, I will first wait and let my feelings / thoughts quiet approach first.
    I think, that was not the smartest/best Love Confession for a Girl, but i hope she understand my situation.

    "Enggggrish for Beginner" xD

    P.S.: thanks d3lt4 again


    Last edited by Soliduz; 05-26-2010 at 03:52 PM.
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    That's what life's all about."

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    Well, if she hasn't call you or text you back, some things might be going on:
    1. She is scared, and doesn't know what to do, she might also think that it would be for the best not going into a relationship for the sake of the friendship.
    2. She is scared, and doesn't know what to do, she is talking with her 'female' friends(if she has any)
    3. She's actually in love with someone else, and she is not going to commit her love to you, she doesn't know what to do right now, and she is making a tough decision.
    4. She got off to Australia to some place you will never find out

    These things could have been the issue, along with many more that I can not think of right now.

    What would I do?
    Do nothing, if that girl loves you or still wants to be friends, she will automatically come to you.(If she received that message, because if your used you Meizu, you might want to think twice )
    Last edited by LVL; 05-26-2010 at 04:27 PM.
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